Anyway these were my thoughts on your post. But if you look at the woman of Proverbs 31, she is confident, capable and self-assured. I've served as a missionary, a pastor, and as a pastoral counselor. Woman of valour/strength…this gives a whole new perspective on this passage. She was not made from his head to top him Before finding my passion for writing, I felt dead inside. If you’re comfortable, share with your husband about your newfound understanding, meaning and the ultimate charge to men about the Proverbs 31 Woman. There are many places that talk about marriage in the Bible. Hi Rahila, you are welcome to share it with others. This is awesome. It’s likely been used as the measuring rod of womanhood for Christian women. I think that that way of thinking can apply to the whole passage. I run my own business and I very rarely ask my husband his opinion because he doesn't know much about what I do or how I do it. Today it was a blessing to have you sing over me on behalf of the father. Some of the most well known individuals that have ever lived on this Earth have been women. Perhaps you might find this article helpful as well? I hv dated, but now that my kids are grown and I have granddaughters I have been working on me. 17 She sets about her work vigorously; This book should be viewed through the lens of principals. I’m Angelica! All my life I have been searching for the right woman for me but I didn't realized how clueless i was about knowing what the attributes are for the perfect woman for me. So I took your post as inspiration for a sermon to share with the local congregation. This is a great compilation of the Proverbs 31 Womens Virtues. Nope. In fact, he continually encourages me to be an independent thinker and to keep on doing what I'm doing. Yet I don't see any references in your website about women getting into real estate, opening businesses to make a profit, as is shown in Proverbs 31. Once-a-month emails with tips for simplifying your life and random ramblings. The Bible says faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. I love the Hebrew translation of, “eshet chayil” as well as your link to the acrostic poem of Proverbs 31 sung in Hebrew. You mess up sometimes? <3. She is not interested in immature men. I would have to say that 90% of females in my life have been anything but Proverbs 31 women. (Proverbs 31:20, 26). THANK YOU for so eloquently stating what I keep fumbling for on other blog posts. As a result, they miss out on understanding the historical context of scripture. and she laughs without fear of the future. What I meant was that she shouldn't spend money behind his back. I hope your ladies are blessed! I can say that your words of encouragement is surely a blessing, keep up the good work, Woman are seeking for strength and your words of wisdom surely put a flowers in our cap's may GOD bless and keep you and give you the will power to send his light to light up his woman of VIRTURE. It does not state that this woman was solely a home-maker. There are verses that mention how to be a good mother and wife, but preparing your heart for those things can help bring you closer to God. If you are single, work on being responsible for yourself and profitable in your work so that you are in a position to help others, whether it be your family or society in general. She might have been afflicted, but thank God we have Jesus...John 10:10. This is one of my favorite verses. But seems like sometimes people miss this one small point. and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. So hard to keep going when we don’t share the same passion. I have read Proverbs 31 over and over and I know that I am and now can be that virtuous woman and wife to the right man, If you all could just pray God will send someone who is on fire for him as I am into my life. How might that inspire the way you live out your life? 31:20 I would have loved to see this idea incorporated as well. Certainly more could be said, but at minimum a godly woman will be revealed by her diligent work ethic in whatever role she is in. Put your faith in God to help you when you feel lost. There is a big difference between what she did and have a full-time career. Why you do what you do is almost more important than what you do. amzn_assoc_asins = "1514122103,B01NBW93N6,0310436923,0883686716";
, (The author wasn’t even speaking to women. My husband is supportive and understanding and to heck with all the (supposedly) perfect women out there! I'd like your permission to use your list. I am so glad you found it inspirational! Seeing as though it was written from Bathsheba to Solomon, of course there wouldn’t be mention of how she interacts with her children because she would be unwed and not yet have children. But I know what I want and wont settle for anything less for my walk. How to Apply Proverbs 31 to Your Life Today, serves God with all of her heart, mind, and soul, serves her husband, her family, her friends, and her neighbors, creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love, All About the Proverbs 31 Woman | Your Questions Answered, From Chaos to Calm: 15 Weeks to a Happy Home, purchase this printable Proverbs 31 Bible Study Guide here for just $2.97, Perfection is NOT Required | How to Let Go of Perfectionism. Am so blessed that I wish I could physically be in your class for this teaching. No-one knew I felt this way because I don't like to complain and I try to do it all and I was greatly failing. But I think a lot of people find her very intimidating because they don’t feel like they measure up for whatever reason. 5) Service again a lot relates to both married and unmarried women. So I decided to do just that. It's the God in me. Hello Mellissa, I just wanted to say that I love your website and that it's an absolute blessing to my life. It sounds like he may be taking out his frustrations on you in an unhealthy way. I would personally like to ask for your permission to use this list, with a link back to your site, with all your credits of course. *pinky promise*. This morning in my quiet time with the lord, his spirit spoke gently but firmly to me that I should not be looking at his character flaws but that I needed to look within myself......I needed to become a Proverbs 31 woman. I say all that because to be a Proverbs 31 woman you do not need to literally do everything listed in Proverbs 31:10-31. If you’ve been in Christian circles long enough, then I know you’ve read this scripture frontwards and backwards. That just wasn’t the purpose of this article. But by being the amazing Godly woman God created YOU to be! It is asked that we be wise with what we say. But count how many times her family is actually mentioned. I just love him unconditionally, but I know our Lord will give me strength to make it. It can also help us avoid not only misquoting, but also incorrectly teaching biblical principles, simply because we did not take the time to study to “show ourselves approved.” (2 Timothy 2:15). Some Christians are called to singleness, but most are called to marriage. Not a wife? I loved everything you wrote. Prov. That is focusing on my husband's 85% good qualities over his 15% inperfection without complain. Thank you so much for this! He is giving you this 3rd child for a reason, stay close to him, trust in him. I believe your heart and your God-given insights are a blessing to Christian women who are trying hard to swim against the current of modern culture to create godly marriages and homes. Hi Devon I've been married almost 4 years with two childern. My wife says she gave up life, says she doesn't know if she wants to be married or live life. I truly thank God for you because wether you know it or not you're changing lives. Of course I will mention your lovely self and a Virtuouswoman.org. Once again thank you for your support! Healing and restoration will crown it all. And I thought of checking for the word 'being a virtuous woman, so I came across your website. Thank you for helping women to be godly women as described by Proverbs 31. With humility may i print a few copies to issue out to them to make our studies an interesting one, and would also not forget to give you all the credit. I really need one of those! Awww, well thank you and nice to “meet” you! I hope you guys don't mind a man posting here! I think the mother is very wise and as a mother of 2 daughters these are the characteristics I would love for us women in my household to develop. The second being trust in God and his plan. Virtuous Woman=Woman of Valor, and eshet chayil meaning Carry on, Warrior!” #yougogirl. I was an independant woman, making money, had the car, had the condo, trying to be up to par with men. Please see our. God Bless, Hi Melissa, I'm doing a community group for women that will discuss Proverbs 31. Sometimes the love for our loved ones can make us tolerate so much that we miss the point. If you get a chance, I would love for you to take a look at it. One of our jobs as godly wives is to be sure our husbands are esteemed as godly men. Thanks Robyn, I really think I may have met her. The biggest passage I hear quoted in the working vs. staying home debate is Titus 2:4, not necessarily this one. He is 53 and I am 50. A Proverbs 31 woman seeks strength and dignity. Although our marriage has had ups and downs, we've survived the rough times and rejoiced in the good times together with the guidance of our Lord Jesus. We are promised thanks and praise for our hard work. I only believe that one day my ex will see our mistakes and forgive herself so we can move into a better compatible place where the spirit of God rsides, for our children sake. May all women be blessed in the knowledge that our strength does not come from ourselves but from the Holy Spirit in us. They bless and celebrate weddings, pregnancies, birthdays, completion of projects, promotions, degrees, overcoming illness or sickness, nearly any and every accomplishment, by edifying one another, proclaiming “eshet chayil!”, What is “eshet chayil”? i have three girls and I really wished could have gotten my hands on this sooner so that at least I could introduce this concept to all three of my daughters. He's the one who encourages me to continue to do what I'm doing. She *may* have been real, but given the tone of Proverbs with the personification of Wisdom, etc, my best guess is that she’s not. I appreciate this and am excited to read more of your blog. The chapter states she makes and sells merchandise, has maids to help her in the house and understands product profitability, finances. It’s okay to slack off a bit on the housework, so that we may choose “that good part which shall not be taken away from” us – whether that be creating something beautiful, or studying, or reading a book ‘just because.’ Our lives are not meant to be drudgery; we are meant to edify ourselves and to put that on equal standing with serving others. We have been married over 20 years and have been through some pretty tough times together. I'm a work-at-home mom. Thank you! It grinds my gears when bloggers describe the P31 woman as "industrious" and then only cite how she gets up early and goes to bed late because she's so busy taking care of her children and being a housewife. Hi Melissa, Being a virtuous woman is not instant but rather a lifestyle we do adopt with time. And maybe after getting your wings fixed, you can fly. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints.”. May God grant us the grace not only to be virtuous but to make it to heaven.